Ramas philosophy

Rama was pacifying KOwsalaya and Lakshman thus.All these developments were directed by Almighty. Otherwise stately lady like KAIKEYI WOU;LD NOT talk so cheap.For certain things we strive so much but we cant get them. For some other things without our trials also we benefit immensely. So all this is the work of God. So they should accept the reality and let hi go to woods.Lakshman is again trying to make Rama see reason.Rama need not obey vicious manipulations of Kaikeyi and Dasaratha.What boons?wHY DID THEY NOT COME BEFORE?You are the eldest. why younger one is going to be enthroned?Dasaratha is not your real father. HE IS lustful man and slave pf Kaikeyi. Only weaklings talk about god. I would use my shoulder strength to prove it.HE WOULD KILL EVERY ONE AND make Rama the king.Kowsalya understood that Rama has decided to go and no one could stop him. She atleast wanted to accompany him into woods.Rama did not accept this also. He said that for a woman husband is the ultimate and she could not leave him in this hour of need. She could pray for his wellbeing. Bharatha was a perfect gentleman and he would respect Kowsalya.